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God Speaks

And Samuel said [to the Lord], “Speak, for your servant hears.”  (I Sam 3:10)

I want to hear from you, Lord.  I don’t want a life in which you are far off.  I want your presence, your voice, your direction, your will for my life. 

God still speaks.

Some people want to deny the voice of God today, but He speaks nonetheless.  He has spoken to me concerning my career, education, wife, children, faith, parents, and friends.  He has given me direction concerning my entertainment and health, concerning how to spend my time and His money.  He has spoken to me about my sin and prayers, about the Scriptures and His character.  I would venture to say that God has spoken to me about virtually every aspect of life worth talking about. 

The reason God speaks to His people is that He made us ultimately for relationship with Him, and relationship involves communication.  In fact, I would go so far as to say that God’s communication with His people is a necessary consequence of His restoring us to Himself.  Whatever words you wish to use – salvation, redemption, reconciliation, forgiveness, justification, and more – I would argue that the end result of those words is to restore the relationship that existed in the garden before sin entered the world.  The purpose of those acts is to make you an adopted son or daughter of the great king, to unite you with Christ as a bride unites with her husband.  God is your father.  Christ is your groom.  Those are intensely relational concepts that demand ongoing communication. 

I fully understand why nonChristians question the idea of God speaking.  They have no real relationship with God at all, and consequently, can have no deep experience of hearing God’s voice.  But sometimes people who identify as Christians talk as nonChristians do.  This is a bit disconcerting because these people claim salvation but disclaim the relationship that their salvation is supposed to procure.  We are saved so we can be with God and He with us, but if God never speaks anymore, for all practical purposes we are on our own. 

For the Christian, this should never be.  When your sin is gone, God comes to live inside you, and you may approach the throne of grace with boldness.  When your sin is gone, expect a new relationship with God.  Speak to God and let Him speak to you. 

This new relationship with God through Christ requires an investment on your part.  You get out of your relationships what you put into them.

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Fishing and Writing

At the end of the book of John, Jesus’ disciples are back in Galilee, and Simon Peter decides to go fishing.  A cohort of others joins him, including John, the son of Zebedee.  While they are still on the water, after catching nothing all night, Jesus shows up on the shore and calls to them to cast their nets on the right side of the boat.  They do so and wind up catching so many fish that they can’t pull the net into the boat.

After everyone gets to the shore, Jesus has a fire going with fish and bread for breakfast.  He tells them to bring some of their fish.  So they do, and they count them.  John says there were 153 large fish “and although there were so many, the net was not torn” (Jn 21:11).

It is this last bit of the story that I want to comment on.  The number of fish, the size of the fish, and the fact that the net did not tear are utterly extraneous to the story.  By themselves, they are details that serve no purpose to further the story or to convey theological truth, yet somehow the author of John considers these details significant enough to report.

I know that if I were writing this account, I would not have reported the details about the fish and the nets because I would have seen no significance in them.  They mean nothing to me because I don’t know anything about fishing.  These details make sense only if you assume a certain knowledge of first century fishing.  But most people, even in the first century, lack that knowledge. 

Therefore, I see in these details a subtle clue that the author of John knew first century fishing, as if, perhaps, he was a fisherman.

It’s just a whisper of authenticity.

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On Denying Self

If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself, take up his cross daily and come follow me. (Luke 9:23)

Christian maturity comes through Christ.  When Jesus gets inside you, He changes you to be more like Him.  He went to the Cross.  When He gets inside you, He will take you to the Cross too.

He will call you to deny yourself.  He will ask you to die.  And you won’t like it.  And because you won’t like it, you will fight it.  Blessed is the one who yields his life when it is hard.

But when you yield, you must yield to the true voice of Christ.  Where Christ calls you to deny yourself, do it.  But do not think you will earn favor with God by denying what God has not called you to deny.

Asceticism for its own sake or to show how devout you are is harmful.  It breeds pride.  It is not the mark of Christian maturity.  But self-denial in those areas on which God has placed His finger is essential.  Self-denial for the wrong reasons is a religious show.  It is legalism.  But self-denial from the heart when Jesus speaks is obedience.  It is part of your growth.

Therefore, if Jesus says, “Give sacrificially,” you have to be willing to give, even if it means going without that vacation you wanted.

If Jesus says, “Apologize to your subordinate at work,” you have to apologize, even if it means swallowing your pride.

If Jesus says, “Get up and pray,” you have to get up and pray, even if it means going without sleep.

If Jesus says, “Give me Thursday nights and go serve the needy,” you have to give Him Thursday nights, even if it means saying no to time with your friends.  

If Jesus says, “Give me your music,” give Him your music.  If He says, “Stop spending time at the theater,” stop going to the movies.  If He says, “Football has become your idol,” stop watching football.

Denying yourself can look any of these ways.  When Jesus speaks in this way concerning some aspect of your life, your obedience is not legalism, even if your friends accuse you of such.  Your obedience is obedience.  In fact, in these cases, if you ignored Jesus’ call by reasoning that you had freedom to take a vacation or sleep or see your friends Thursday night or watch football, you would be technically correct.  You would also be disobedient. 

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Suffering and Growing

Although he was a son, he learned obedience through what he suffered.” (Heb 5:8)

Father, I don’t want suffering.  But I do want more of You.  And if suffering helps me know You better, bring what is necessary to bring me near to You.

Jesus learned obedience through what He suffered.  When we look at that Scripture, we often focus on the question of how the eternal Son of God needed to learn anything, but that question doesn’t trouble me.  The eternal Son of God became a man; and as a man, He had to learn all sorts of things.  He learned how to walk and talk.  He learned how to count.  He learned how to read.  He learned carpentry and doctrine.  He learned history and Jewish culture.  He learned Mary’s fears and Joseph’s desires.  He learned weakness and humility.  To say that He learned obedience is no surprise. 

To me, however, the more important part of that Scripture is how Jesus learned.  He learned obedience through what He suffered.

Pain teaches us obedience.  Comfort does not.  The man who obeys when he wants to doesn’t learn anything about obedience because he is doing what he wants.  But the man who says, “Father, if it be possible, take this cup from me,” and who then walks to the Cross – that man has learned obedience. 

Suffering changes you.  It makes some people bitter and others humble.  It shows you your weakness up close.  It shows that you are not in charge of your life.  When you see these truths, you can mature, for the greatest hindrance to spiritual maturity is self.  Suffering has the ability to open the eyes of your heart to see that your “self” is not as strong as you think.  Suffering can help you look beyond yourself, and it is precisely then that God can draw nearer.  Suffering helps faith understand God in a deeper way.

And suffering often exposes a lack of faith.  It is much easier to hide the real you when life is comfortable.  But when pain shows up, the real you comes out. 

Thus, suffering reveals who you are and changes you simultaneously. 

This is why God insists that we experience pain and suffering.  He doesn’t want us to hide, and He wants to help us die to ourselves.

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The Kingdom and Suffering

Indeed, all who desire to live a godly life in Christ Jesus will be persecuted (II Tim 3:12)

Jesus, thank you that you have gone through suffering we will never understand and promise to be with us always in the midst of ours.  Hallelujah!

Leanne and I had dinner with another couple a few days ago, and we got to talking about the church in America.  The wife of the other couple made the observation that the American church is full of Christians who have stagnated in their spiritual growth.  They go to church.  They read their Bible.  They may serve in some capacity or even give.  But they will go only so far. 

Her observation is spot on, and there is a reason why.  Christianity is about more than just doing nice practices and being respectable.  Jesus told his followers to take up their cross.  And that’s hard.  The cross involves self-denial and suffering, and people aren’t willing to go that far.  But in the kingdom of God, no other way exists except the way of the Cross.  The disciples give us many examples of it. 

The Philippians threw Paul and Silas in prison.  Herod slew James.  Rome exiled John and crucified Peter.  The Jews stoned Stephen.  Read the New Testament and you quickly encounter persecution and opposition to the gospel everywhere you turn.  In the New Testament, God’s people suffer. 

Paul tells us that suffering for Jesus has been granted us (Ph 1:29) and that we should rejoice in our sufferings (Rm 5:3ff).  Peter says that we are not to be surprised at the fiery trial when it comes, as though something strange were happening (I Pet 4:12).  The writer to the Hebrews describes the people of faith being mocked, flogged, imprisoned, stoned, sawn in two, killed with the sword and more (Heb 11:36-8).  John relates the trials of the people of God as a central component of his visions in The Revelation.  Jesus says that this world will hate you on account of Him (Jn 15:18-19) and that you are blessed when the world insults, persecutes, and slanders you because of Him (Mt 5:10-12).

It is fair to say that the New Testament considers the suffering of God’s people to be normal.  We are to expect hardship for Jesus’ sake, and when it comes we are to embrace it and rejoice in it. 

If you listen to many Christians talk, however, this concept is as foreign as Andromeda.  They think that if God blesses us, we won’t have to deal with pain or hardship.  They consider the fiery trial to be evidence of God’s absence. 

How did we get this way?  I mean, you have to twist Scripture pretty badly to think that God somehow owes you a nice, comfortable existence.  The truth that God’s people suffer kicks you in the teeth.  And many still miss it. 

We miss it because we don’t like it.  We miss it because this truth comes in a package with lots of other truths.  We open the package, and we see that God loves us.  We ooh and ahh over that truth because we like it.  We see that God has come and died for sin, that we are forgiven, that we are His adopted children, and that we inherit all the spiritual blessings of Christ, and we set these truths on the mantel above the fireplace for all to see.  They are wondrous and beautiful and precious.  But when we pull out of the box that bit about suffering, we set that truth behind the water heater in the garage where we quickly forget it.  It doesn’t seem so lovely as those mantelpiece truths. 

The truth about suffering and trials, however, comes in a Biblical package for a reason.  The truths of God were never meant to be separated.  Suffering belongs on the mantelpiece right with the love of God.  When you see them together, you see the depths of the love of God and the blessings of Christ even more.  When you see them together, you see that the love of God and the mercies of Christ are not merely the shallow comforts of earth but are deeper than the deepest pain you will ever face.  The sufferings of the saints make those mantelpiece truths shine more gloriously.  You don’t understand the love of God until you have suffered.

And suffering likewise needs those other truths.  When you put them together, you show the hope that you have in the face of pain, but when you relegate suffering to the garage, you separate it from the very truths that will help you through it when it comes. 

And here’s the thing. 

Suffering will come.  That’s a promise.  From God Himself.

But He also promises to be with you in the midst of the fiery furnace.  He says He loves you and forgives you and has died for you and has made your soul insanely rich in Christ.  And He says all these promises are true even while you suffer.  Your sufferings do not negate those other truths.  They all go together. 

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Practices for Handling Money IV: Investing

Before you read this blog, please read the previous blogs on principles and practices for handling money.  From a spiritual standpoint, those principles and practices need to be in place before you think about investing money. 

Now . . . investing. 

If you are hoping for me to talk about great funds to park your money in or nice tricks to maximize a return on an investment, I’m going to disappoint you.  I am not an investment expert, and I don’t want to be one.  I know the Bible, not the stock market.  I am here to bring a Biblical focus to investing and not to provide the latest strategies on multiplying money. 

With that out of the way, allow me to begin with a story about a man I know who, many years ago, spoke to me about investing.  He told me that everyone should invest at least x dollars or y per cent of his income in certain types of funds that this man deemed safe.  He then said that beyond these safe investments, everyone should invest money in other areas that could yield a higher rate of return. 

He had no idea that he was talking to a man who had no disposable income to invest at all, and I distinctly remember thinking that he and I lived in different worlds.  This man with his “wonderful” investment advice had no clue about the realities of most people. 

Don’t make the mistake that man made.  An enormously large swath of the world’s population can’t invest.  You can’t invest what you don’t have.  So if you are fortunate enough to have the means to invest, be grateful to God for what He gave you and be aware that many people in this world, and perhaps many people in your world, do not have your means.  Do not assume that everyone can invest.

Now if you do have money beyond basic giving, beyond the basic needs of your family, and beyond saving for some future need, what should you do with it?

The answer to that question is not the same for everyone.  God will ask some to give most or all of that extra money away.  He may allow others to spend a portion on something special.  He may tell others to invest a part for the future.  He may combine any or all of the above in different ratios for different people so that there are a million different answers for a million different people.

And yet there is really one answer to the question of what you should do with extra income.  You should submit it to God, seek Him, and allow Him to direct your steps concerning what to do.  Then you are in position to hear when He gives His one-in-a-million advice.

The Bible does not directly talk much about investing, either positively or negatively.  Investing, in and of itself, is not evil or sinful.  I can think of no Biblical condemnation for investing itself.  But the righteous woman considers a field and buys it (Pr 31:16).  And in the parable of the talents, Jesus praised the first two servants for investing and condemned the wicked servant for not investing.  I understand that this parable is about more than money, but it at least endorses the concept of investing, even if it is a parable.

This Biblical vagueness on investing gives us freedom to invest or not as God may lead.

So if you seek God, and He seems to be leading you to invest some money, what now?  I am not going to tell you where specifically to invest, but here are some principles to think through to help you keep your investments in perspective.

1.  Investing is not the most important thing for you to do with your money.  Few verses in the Bible talk about investing, but scads of verses warn against greed and push you to let go of money and give.  A heart free from money is more important than a good portfolio, and generous giving is better than smart investing.  If investing begins to control you, if it grabs undue attention from your heart, if it keeps you from giving generously and sacrificially, you may need to stop investing and take care of the weightier matters of your own heart.

My wife says that when she was single, she knew guys who were constantly checking their investments.  They might meet for dinner, and the guy would check the stock market in the middle of dinner or while cleaning the dishes.  This practice told my wife something about the priorities of these men.  There may have been nothing wrong with their investing money, but there was something wrong with their undue focus on investing money.  If God calls you to invest some of His money, let your heart be free from those investments. 

2.  Do not support unrighteousness when you invest.  As a Christian, you hold the Bible and Jesus to be holy.  Why would you then financially invest in businesses that flaunt what is holy?  If a business owns a subsidiary that makes pornography, don’t support it.  If it consistently makes movies that portray Christians as stupid, immoral, or hypocritical, or movies with messages that continually promote sin, don’t invest in it.  If a business publicly promotes homosexuality or advertises in a way that is sexually explicit, or takes an openly hostile position against Christians or a Biblical view, invest somewhere else.  Ask yourself if you can in good conscience support the product, message, and practices of a company, and if you can’t, don’t give it your money.

Sometimes you may have no control over your investments.  Your employer provides a retirement fund that it or another entity manages, and you may have no choice in where it invests.  Fine.  I would not lose sleep over that.  If you can affect where your money goes, avail yourself of the opportunity, but don’t freely choose to invest in unrighteousness just so you can make a buck.  In the West, the culture is certainly getting more overtly hostile to faith in Christ, but you can still find investments that are wholesome and companies that produce products, promote messages, and engage in practices that are Biblically legitimate.  There are even investment companies that specialize in investing with a Christian conscience (Thrivent, Eventide). 

This consideration is important because when you invest in a business or mutual fund, you are financially supporting and helping what those businesses do, and if their ideas or products go against the kingdom of God, you are using your money to fight against God. When you decide where to invest, look at more than the rate of return. Consider the actual products themselves.

3.  Invest more than money.  We have been talking about money here because that is the focus of this series.  But money is only one resource.  In the end, invest your life in the kingdom of God.  Your money will follow. 

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Practices for Handling Money III: Saving

When Joseph counseled Pharaoh on how to handle the seven years of famine, he told Pharaoh to save during the seven years of plenty.  The savings would then carry the nation through the famine.  This is a central purpose of saving.

Almost everyone will experience times of low income or unusual bills that their income cannot handle.  Therefore, if you are able to save, it is generally wise to set aside a reasonable amount of money for those times.  I have intentionally nuanced that statement, so let’s discuss it to elaborate on the nuance.

If you are able to save . . . Some things take priority over saving.  It is more important that you and your family have a modest place to live, basic food, simple clothes, and a means to get to and from work than it is for you to save.  In addition, you should be giving something from your income even if that income is meager.  If you save but never give, that’s a problem.  Saving requires an income above your basic needs, and not everyone has that.  Thus, some people can’t save.  But if you are able to save . . .

it is generally wise . . .  Saving is not a law that must be universally followed.  Jesus told the rich, young ruler to give away all he had.  That is the opposite of saving, and we need to hold money loosely enough that God can have it without prying it from us.  We need room in our thinking on money to let God be God.  He may want you to set aside some money for the future because He knows what is coming.  Or He may ask you to give it all away and trust Him for the future.  So saving is not a law.

But it is a principle that is usually wise.  Saving allows you to buy more expensive items – a used car, for example – without having to borrow money.  Saving helps prevent you from going into debt when you lose your job or get sick and can’t work.  If you save nothing, you can’t pay your rent or buy groceries when those times come.  Saving helps teach you to deny yourself now in order to have something for the future, for whatever you save, you cannot now spend.  The practice of saving, thus, affects your spending habits, usually in a good way.  So if you are able to save, it is generally wise . . .

to set aside a reasonable amount of money.  Saving must never become hoarding.  The man who built bigger barns for himself was a fool.  Hoarding destroys your soul.  It is an abuse of saving.  In hoarding, saving becomes your god.  People hoard to feel secure, which means that they do not feel secure in God.  That is a big problem. 

God must have lordship over your money.  If He has you save, then let Him lead in the amount.  Talk to Him about it and follow His lead.  That should help against hoarding.  As you save, continue to give sacrificially.  That should also help against hoarding. 

Responsible saving has limits to it, and those limits are driven by its purpose.  The purpose of saving is not to make you feel secure.  The purpose of saving is to provide for the basic needs of you and your family during emergencies and to purchase more expensive items that you know God wants you to pursue – college tuition, perhaps, or a car. 

Sometimes, however, good purposes for saving can serve as excuses for hoarding.  Maybe God wants you to save $20,000 for college, but you feel you need $100,000.  The problem is not in saving for college.  The problem is in what you feel you need.  The problem is a heart problem.  Therefore, let God have lordship over your money, and He will direct your saving.  You can trust Him in that.

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Practices for Handling Money II: Debt

If I’m going to talk about money, at some point I have to talk about debt. In America at least, debt is a way of life.  The American government is trillions of dollars in debt, and that amount grows every day.  Americans by the bucketloads take on debt to fund their college degrees, buy their homes, run their small businesses, and own their cars.  Consumer debt in America is pandemic.  You might say that debt is the norm, it is the culture, and people don’t think twice about taking it on.  Sometimes, however, you can follow the culture to your own ruin. 

The relationship of Scripture toward debt is complex partly because the word “debt” can mean more than one thing.  “Debt” can refer to any situation in which someone borrows money.  This is the broadest meaning of the term.  According to this meaning, the person with a modest home mortgage that he has no trouble paying is in debt because he has signed a note to pay off the balance in the future. 

The second meaning of “debt” refers to a situation in which people owe money that they cannot pay back.  Occasionally, this sort of debt comes from extraordinary circumstances beyond one’s control — enormous medical bills or loss of work due to injury — but in America, at least, these sorts of situations are the minority.  In most instances in America, the debtor willingly took on debt that he could not sustain over time – buying too much home or taking on hefty credit card debt. 

Scripture stands squarely against this second type of debt when it arises because the debtor chose it. The debtor has foolishly and willingly borrowed money or signed a contract that strains his finances to the point that he eventually cannot pay.  That type of debt is sin (Ps 37:21).  It can be a type of stealing, for the debtor has taken money from others but does not pay it back.  It is often a violation of one’s word, for the debtor has signed a contract that says he will pay according to certain terms but later reneges on what he signed.  It reveals a heart that is misplaced, for where your treasure is, there your heart will be also, and this kind of debt shows that the heart’s treasure is at least skewed toward earth instead of toward Christ.  The heart of the debtor is not content with what he has.  So he borrows to get what he wants or he commits money that he can’t pay.  That is sin. 

Scripture is more nuanced on the first meaning of debt (borrowing money broadly speaking).  On the one hand:

1.  Scripture contains no clear prohibition of all loans.  Even Romans 13:8 that says to “owe no one anything, except to love each other” does not necessarily restrict all forms of loans, for it comes immediately after 13:7, which says to “pay to all what is owed to them: taxes to whom taxes are owed, revenue to whom revenue is owed.”  If you borrow money and sign a contract to pay it back, do you owe the full balance or merely the amount the contract says you owe this month? The answer, of course is “yes.” Thus, does 13:7 tell us to pay our obligations faithfully or to pay off everything immediately?  My point isn’t to debate what Romans 13 says about loans, but to say that whatever it says is debatable.  I would not consider it a clear prohibition of all loans.  If, however, someone read this verse and took it to mean they could not take out any loan ever, I would tell him to follow his conscience on the matter. 

2.  The Old Testament allows for loans to the foreigner (Dt 23:20).

3.  Jesus, in the parable of the talents, scolds the wicked servant because he did not at least put his one talent into the bank where it could earn interest (Matt 25:26-7).  I understand this is a parable and not straightforward teaching.  I also understand that Jesus is not advising the wicked servant to take out a loan.  But within the parable, this is at least an endorsement of banks and what they do, and the main thing they do is loan money.

On the other hand:

1.  The Old Testament prohibits charging interest on loans for your brother (Dt 23:19-20) and for the poor (Ex 22:25; Lev 25:35-8).  Even if charging interest on loans may be Biblically allowable in some cases, it is not allowable to take advantage of the poor in this way or to put debt between brothers.

2.  “The borrower is the slave of the lender” (Pr 22:7).  Even if borrowing money may be legal, it is not normally wise.

3.  Romans 13:8 may not prohibit all loans, but it does push in the direction of avoiding debt in general and of getting out of it if you are in it. 

Thus, Scripture may allow for certain types of loans to certain people and for charging reasonable interest on those loans, but the overall thrust of Scripture is to lend freely and to not be in debt to your brother. 

It may be true that the first meaning of debt (borrowing money broadly) can be legitimate, but it is also true that this first meaning is what leads to the second meaning (borrowing money that you can’t pay back), and when borrowing money reaches the point where you can’t pay it back, you’ve crossed a line. 

Based on the discussion above, I do not believe Scripture lays down a law against all debt, but my counsel would be to avoid debt as much as possible.  Avoid car payments and student loans.  Avoid credit card charges that you can’t pay off at the end of the month.  Don’t finance furniture or a new kitchen.  If you cannot afford to purchase something new or big, live with what you have.  If you must purchase an item, purchase something used and less expensive and pay cash instead of borrowing.  Do everything in your power to avoid debt if you can.

Sometimes you can’t.  A home might be an example.  You must live somewhere.  That’s not an option.  And wherever you live will likely involve debt.  In most instances, your only options are to rent or buy, and both options involve debt of some kind.  When you rent, you sign a lease that obligates you to make monthly payments for usually a year.  That is a form of debt.  If you take out a mortgage for 15 years, you have one contract for 15 years.  If you sign leases for 15 years, you have 15 contracts for 15 years.  The mortgage is a bigger contract with a longer time to pay it, but no matter how you divide it up, you must take on debt if you want to live somewhere. 

Given this reality, if you can afford a reasonable home mortgage, go ahead and get one for the following reasons:  1) In the long term, owning is cheaper than renting.  2) The lease is perpetual.  The mortgage is not.  Thus, the mortgage actually gives you an opportunity to end debt for housing.  3) With a mortgage, you own the home.  This gives you a resource you can use to pay your debt if something wild happens.  If you become unable to pay your mortgage, you can always sell your home, pay what you owe, and go rent something cheaper.  I understand there are times when people may be upside down on their mortgages and also unable to pay, but those instances are much rarer than people being delinquent on their rent.  In general, the home itself is a resource that provides equity against defaulting on your debt. 

Do not, however, get a mortgage if you cannot afford one.  A mortgage may be cheaper in the long run, but it is considerably more expensive up front.  And if you do get a mortgage, get only what you can pay for.  Don’t buy a $500,000 house if you can afford only a $250,000 house.  And once you have a mortgage, pay it off as quickly as you can without jeopardizing your ability to support your family and pay your other obligations. 

Thus, your main thrust concerning all forms of debt should be to avoid it as much as possible.  Debt is too often a financial, emotional, and spiritual shackle.     

All things may be lawful, but not all things are expedient. 

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Practices for Handling Money

Before I talk about Biblical practices for handling money, read the previous blog “Principles for Handling Money” here.  That blog describes heart attitudes toward money, and a right heart is the foundation for right practices.  Everything I say here presupposes what I said there.  If you understand what a right heart looks like, what does that heart do with money?  I will cover financial practices in multiple blogs, but for now, here are three.

Give Sacrificially:  Giving may be the single most important thing you do with your money.  Whatever your income, you can give something.  And you need to give something, not just for financial reasons but because giving is healthy for your soul.  Giving is how your soul lets go of money.  Giving is the best way to combat greed. 

A heart that wants to follow Jesus sees the goodness, the necessity, and the benefits of giving and embraces it.  A heart that cares little for Jesus will hold onto what is mine, mine, mine. 

God will not require everyone to give the same amount or even the same percentage, but He will require everyone to give. 

Giving needs to be a sacrifice.  The billionaire who gives millions hasn’t made a sacrifice.  Your giving should cause you to go without something you would otherwise have if you did not give. 

For more on giving go here and here.

Live Within Your Means:  This practice deals with spending, and because it deals with spending, it deals with your lifestyle.  Don’t try to live a lifestyle you can’t afford.  If you can afford only a one-bedroom house, don’t buy a three-bedroom house.  If you can afford only a 600 square foot apartment, don’t rent a 1200 square foot one.  Don’t go on a vacation you can’t pay for or buy a new car when you can afford only a used one.  All these choices are lifestyle choices, and all these choices deal with spending. 

How you handle money impacts your lifestyle.  You may not be able to live like everyone around you or like the happy people in the commercials. 

Instead you must live within your means.  This practice is a contentment issue.  People who are content with what they have live with what they have.  If you think you should have more, you will face pressure to spend more, whether you can afford it or not.  If you believe you need what you do not need – a bigger pickup, a cabin at the lake, more entertainment, whatever – then you will spend what you can’t afford.  Such spending is fundamentally a spiritual problem that has caused a financial problem. 

You must live within your means for multiple reasons.

First, doing so prevents financial disaster and debt. 

Second, doing so frees money for God’s kingdom.  Most people who do not live within their means do not give.  They don’t think they can give because they think they need more money just to meet their “needs.”

Third, doing so removes the stress from wanting more money.  When you desire more money, you are never content or grateful.  You are stressed. 

Fourth, doing so removes the stress from being unable to pay your bills.  People who do not live within their means can postpone the day of financial reckoning by taking on debt or finagling money from family or friends, but sooner or later they will meet this wall. 

Fifth, doing so helps your soul because it causes you to let go of earth and to say no to pleasures you might want.  Jesus said you must deny self and take up your Cross and follow Him.  God never intends dying to self to be merely an interesting philosophy.  He intends you to practice it, and sometimes He gives you less money than you would like so you can practice it. 

Sixth, doing so helps grow you in self-control and discipline.  The woman who buys the new clothes she can’t afford lacks self-control and discipline.  The woman, however, who wants to eat out every day but who packs a lunch and eats at home builds her self-control and discipline.  Living within your means helps you control money instead of letting money control you.

Seventh, doing so is more honest.  When you live a lifestyle you can’t afford, you pretend to be someone you are not.  You are living a lie.  Your life is just a show. 

If you are content in Christ, you will live within your means.  Pursue Christ.  Love Christ.  Enjoy Christ.  Your spending will then follow your heart. 

Avoid Get-Rich-Quick Schemes:  Earn $10,000 a month working from home . . . Double your income with a phone call . . . How I became a multimillionaire in one year! 

Ads like these are everywhere, and they appeal to the person who wants to get rich.  Ignore them.  These schemes are problematic on multiple levels.  They promote greed, sow discontentment, and focus on self.  They highlight money, increase your anxiety, and push you to trust the wrong source for your provision.  From this perspective alone, get-rich-quick schemes are toxic for your soul.  Avoid them.

But these schemes are also problematic from the perspective of dollars and cents.  Most of these schemes are scams.  They promise a downpour but deliver a desert.  More often they take more than they give.  Thus, in most instances, they will make you poorer as you pursue a dream that makes you more miserable. 

Get-rich-quick schemes are, thus, foolish because they rob your heart and your pocketbook.

Instead of looking to get rich quick, try looking for some good work.  Be faithful, responsible, and full of integrity in your work, and live within your means.  This mentality will be healthier for your soul and better able to provide the needs for you and your family. 

People who have the peace of Christ have no desire to get rich quick.  Those, however, who desire to be rich fall into all sorts of problems (I Tim 6:9). 

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Principles for Handling Money

Money is earthly.  Money is spiritual.  Money is an earthly substance with enormously spiritual implications.  Money is God to many people.  They bow to it.  They live for it.  Their joy is in it.  Because money can wield such spiritual influence, Christian and secular people think on money in vastly different ways. 

Secular thinking focuses on earth.  Consequently, secular advice on handling money tends to focus on how to maximize money or utilize money solely for the here and now.  Secular people do not think about how money impacts their soul or their eternity.  They focus on good principles for investing now or saving now or how to get the most product for their buck. 

Christian thought, however, has an eternal and spiritual focus.  Christians see all of the temporal and practical matters of the here and now and may even agree with much secular advice on investing and saving and what not.  But Christians see more than this, and they do not believe that these temporal, practical matters are the main thing.  In fact, to the Christian, secular advice may be woefully impractical because it ignores the main thing. 

In secular thinking, you maximize earthly gain.  But in Christianity, sometimes you sacrifice earthly gain for the sake of your soul.  Thus, as I give Christian principles for how to handle money, sometimes I will be at loggerheads with what the secular world will tell you.  On other points dealing with practical earthly matters, we may agree to an extent, but as long as I take my cues from above and they take theirs from the here and now, we can never fully agree.  The Christian and secular person will never fully see eye to eye on money.

With that as an intro, let’s dive into some Christian principles for handling money.

God owns it all

Perhaps the first fact we need to understand about money is that whatever money we have is not ours.  It is God’s money, and God has seen fit to let us manage it.  This is a fact that our flesh fights against.  “No!” we scream.  “It’s my money!  I worked the job!  I got the paycheck!  The bank account has my name on it!” 

But it isn’t my money.  God gave me the job.  God gave me the talents and skills I use in that job.  God gave me the breath I breathe so I can work that job.  And God did the same with my employer.  The very money that my employer paid me came from God.  Not only does God own the money I have, but God owns the house, the car, the clothes, the jewelry, everything.  In fact, God owns me.  He may let me use the material possessions in my domain as a father lets his children use the bedroom they sleep in.  He may let me manage the money in a bank account with my name on it as an investor lets a financial planner manage his funds, but the child doesn’t own the bedroom nor the manager the money.

 What this means for the purpose of handling money is that we need to manage God’s money for God’s purposes and not for ours.  Of course, God’s purposes will include providing for the needs of you and your family, but He will also have bigger purposes than that.  He wants to see if you can trust Him enough to use His money as He decides. 

Be grateful

Gratitude flows naturally from the fact that God owns it all.  If God owns everything I have, then everything I have comes from grace.  I don’t deserve one cent of the money I have.  Whether I am financially rich or poor, I deserve less. 

Satan fights against gratitude by convincing us that we own the money, that we worked for it, and that we deserve to do what we please with it.  When the heart holds onto money, it is not grateful for it.

Satan also fights against gratitude by getting us to compare ourselves with those who have more and by convincing us that we deserve more.  When you think that way, you will not be grateful.  But when you see that you deserve nothing and that you own nothing of what God has entrusted you with, you are grateful for what you have. 

Gratitude does not involve how much money you have but how you view the money you have.  A poor elderly woman can be grateful for her pittance, while a rich young man can feel entitled to more.  Or a wealthy man can be grateful for his estate, while a poor woman is bitter that others have more.  Gratitude is in your heart, not in your bank account. 

Be content with what you have

Contentment also flows naturally from the fact that God owns it all, and contentment is crucial to handling money properly.  When you are content in Christ, you are content.  And when you are content, you don’t need more money to be content.  I’ve written on this already here.

Understand that money is temporary

When you die, the money doesn’t go with you.  Money is useful for 80 or 90 years, but in eternity it is useless.  Why trade away eternal benefit so you can have something for 90 years?  That’s a foolish trade.  Live for eternity.  When you consider how to handle money, do so with eternity in mind. 

Let go of money

If God owns it all, let Him own it.  Stop handling money as if it is yours.  Money has the power to corrupt your heart and devour your soul, and almost everyone whom money corrupts and devours has no idea what it does to them.  It is a cancer quietly eating away their heart while they go to work, raise their kids, and buy their home.  If you cannot let go of money, money will not let go of you.  It will drive you and control you and enslave you, and you won’t even know it. 

Let go of it! You can’t live for God and for money.  Let go of it!  If you gain the whole world but lose your soul, you are a fool.  Let go of it!  It’s not yours.  Let go of it!  You can’t take it with you to eternity.  Let go of it!

The heart must be free from money.  You cannot serve two masters.  If Christ is your Lord, money will not be.  If money is your Lord, Christ will not be.  The most effective way to let go of money is to cling with all your heart to Christ, to love Him, pursue Him, adore Him, and serve Him.  This is not just a show.  Many who claim the name of Christ don’t love or serve Him.  Jesus must be your Lord from the heart.  It must be real.  Do that, and you will begin the fight of letting go of money. 

Up to this point, every principle I have mentioned has focused on heart attitudes.  The heart is central.  Many people who talk about money talk only about outward behaviors – saving, spending, debt, investment, emergency funds, IRAs.  But the stance of the heart toward money is the foundation for outwardly handling money in a godly manner.  If the heart is wrong, the behaviors will be misplaced at best. 

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