Month: February 2020

The Bible and Homosexuality

Last week, I gave a brief introduction to a Christian perspective on homosexuality with a focus on the fact that we are to show the love of Christ to homosexual people. This week and next I will briefly discuss some Scriptures that address homosexuality in some way.

Some time ago I was looking on the website of a gay-friendly church.  This church hosted a seminar on how to deal with the Bible’s claims about homosexuality and introduced it with a quote in which a man from the church asked in essence: “How do we deal with what the Bible says about homosexuality?”  The quote struck me because of what the man assumed the Bible seems to say.  He recognized what everyone recognizes when he or she reads Biblical texts that address homosexuality.  Namely this: the plain sense of the Scripture condemns homosexual behavior.  If it doesn’t, the man’s question makes no sense.  The website also recognized the same plain sense by using the man and his question as an example of why the seminar was necessary.  Now obviously, the seminar likely gave alternate interpretations of the texts in question, but the fact that many gay people struggle with what the Bible says indicates that even they naturally interpret Scripture as condemning homosexuality. 

They have to.  The plain sense of Scripture on this issue is obvious.  Therefore, if someone wants to give an alternate interpretation of the Scriptures that deal with homosexuality, then the burden of proof rests on the alternate interpretation, not on the plain sense.  If I say, “You shall not bow to idols as you would to God; it is an abomination,” or “Do not be deceived, no idolater will inherit the kingdom of God,” and you want to claim that I am affirming idolatry, then the burden of proof rests with you, and you’d better have some clear and strong evidence that cannot be interpreted more than one way.

So what does the Bible say?  Let’s look at it.

Leviticus

“You shall not lie with a male as with a woman; it is an abomination.” (18:22)

“If a man lies with a male as with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination; they shall surely be put to death; their blood is upon them.” (20:13)

Leviticus 18 focuses predominantly on sexual sin.  The chapter begins by saying in effect, “Do not do what the people of Egypt and Canaan do.  Do not be like them.  Instead, keep the statutes of the Lord.” (vv 3-5)    The chapter then describes what Egypt and Canaan did sexually that God’s people are not to do.  It reads something like this:

“Do not have sex with your mom.  Do not have sex with your sister or your granddaughter or your aunt or your neighbor’s wife.  Do not have sex with a man as with a woman.  Do not have sex with an animal.”  (1-23)

Both the context and the phrasing are sexual (e.g. look at verses 19-23).  In Leviticus, God is condemning homosexual behavior, and the command refers to all forms of homosexual behavior, for it says, “you shall not do with a man what you would do with a woman.”  Ordinarily, a man would lie with a woman within a committed and consensual marriage relationship.  Leviticus says you shall not do that.  The wording is comprehensive. 

In addition, Leviticus 20:13 gives the punishment. It says that when a man lies with a man, both partners are guilty and both shall be put to death.  The fact that God condemns both partners indicates that He is not referring to homosexual rape or pederasty.  Leviticus condemns consensual and committed homosexual behavior for both partners. 

Jesus

For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false witness, slander.  These are what defile a person . . . (Mt 15:19)

Have you not read that he who created them from the beginning made them male and female, and said, ‘Therefore a man shall leave his father and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’?  So they are no longer two but one flesh.  What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.  (Mt 19:4-6)

People often claim that Jesus never addressed homosexuality, and the claim is true in a strict sense.  The words “homosexual” never cross His lips in the gospels.  But Jesus does address sexual behavior and marriage.  In Matthew 15:19 and other places He condemns sexual immorality.  The word Jesus uses in the gospels is porneia, and it was a catch-all word for all types of sexual behavior outside marriage.  Within His Jewish culture, it included adultery, premarital sex, homosexuality, bestiality, and a host of other sexual sins. 

Suppose then that I say to you that dishonesty is evil.  Have I condemned perjury?  Technically, I never addressed perjury, but perjury is a type of dishonesty just as homosexuality is a type of sexual immorality.  Both Jesus and His audience would have seen homosexuality that way. 

In addition, Jesus does talk about marriage and states that marriage is built on male and female (Mt 19:4-6).  For further discussion, see the blog “Marriage Is . . .” here.

Jesus is much more relevant to the contemporary discussion on homosexuality than many people think.

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Christianity and Homosexuality

“Love your neighbor as yourself.”  (Mt 22:39)

“Love does not delight itself in evil but rejoices in the truth.”  (I Cor 13:6)

Praise you, Father that you give your people your love for all.  And praise You, Father, that you give your people a delight for righteousness and truth.  And praise you, Father, that love and righteousness go together.

We’ve been discussing issues related to gender, marriage, and sexuality, and within contemporary culture that means that we have to say something about homosexuality.  You would have to be awfully ignorant of Western culture to fail to see that those who peddle the culture vehemently push you to accept homosexuality as normal, legitimate behavior, and they will do whatever they can to drive the culture in that direction. 

In light of this, the church must speak.  If it doesn’t speak, then many in the pews will blindly follow their culture, and that would be a disaster.  Scripture must judge culture, not the other way around.  An unbiblical culture should not be telling Christians what the Bible says and means.   That’s a bit silly . . . and sinister.       

So we must speak.   But I suppose the first thing we need to do when discussing homosexuality is to distinguish between how we treat homosexuals as people and how we view homosexuality as a behavior. 

Christians must love homosexual people because Jesus tells us to love our neighbor, and homosexuals are our neighbors.  This is a command, not an option.  But what does this love look like?  Love is not a vague feeling we can shape in any way we wish.  The Bible describes love when it tells us how to live.  For example, Scripture says, “Let no unwholesome talk come out of your mouth.” (Eph 4:29)  Gay slurs are unwholesome talk.  They are sin.  Scripture says, “Consider others as more important than yourself.” (Ph 2:3)  Looking down on homosexuals from a self-righteous position is sin.  Scripture says, “Do to others as you would have them do to you.” (Mt 7:12)  Beating up gay men is sin.  Showing them disrespect is sin.  Failing to honor them as people is sin.  Those who mistreat homosexuals are not acting as Christians but as sinners.  This needs to be clear.  Christianity never endorses or encourages the mistreatment of homosexuals.  Instead it calls people to love them.

This means if you have homosexuals in your work place, respect them as professionals.  Invite them for lunch, and you initiate it.  Show genuine interest in their lives.  If you have homosexual neighbors, have them into your home.  Take them some cookies.  Help them move a piece of furniture.  Take them to a picnic you are going to.  Visit them in the hospital.  Sacrifice your desires for their good.  Do these things gladly, and be open about your faith. 

Christians should be the first people to show Christ’s love to homosexuals.  This is not negotiable.

But love does not endorse every lifestyle.  Love is not agreement.  Everyone knows this, for everyone has seen a father love a son who had done something wrong.  My wife loves me even when I am rude and selfish toward her, and I will be the first to tell you that my selfishness comes naturally.  My wife does not affirm my selfish nature, but she loves me nonetheless.  In fact, if she did affirm my selfish nature, she would not be loving me.

To say that love must accept every idea or behavior is cheap.  It is not love.  In fact, if the truth be told, love shines more brightly in the midst of disagreement.  When my wife loves me even after I wrongly put her down, her love stands out even more.  Such love shows God’s pattern, for “God demonstrates His love for us in this: while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” (Rm 5:8)  God loves all people who by nature think and do what He hates.  In other words, God love sinners, which means that He loves the world.  When God calls certain behavior sin, He is not being hateful.  He is being faithful to His character and showing His love even more. 

Now when we come to homosexuality, we find that Scripture clearly calls such behavior sin.  In fact, Scripture could not be clearer.  But it is also clear that God’s people must show love to everyone.  So how do you show love to people who sin?  Such love, by itself, is hard.  I rather think you need God for that.  But here in the West, when it comes to homosexuality, the position the Christian is in is even harder, for Western culture has defined love in such a way that one must affirm sin in order to love a person?   It’s like saying that I must accept racism to love a KKK member, that I must accept adultery to love an adulterer, or stealing to love a thief.  For a Christian, this is impossible. 

The Christian must love.  Make no mistake about that.  But the Christian’s love must and will look different from the “love” Western culture wants to see.   What Western culture wants is not love.  It wants sexual freedom, and it will shame genuinely loving people and call them hateful if they refuse to accept this sexual freedom.

What this means is that many people immersed in Western culture will never see the genuine love that Christians have for them. For Christians, this situation is sad, but we must live with it.  God does.  Most people never recognize the love God has for them, but it is real nonetheless.  As Christians it is our responsibility to love people.  It is not our responsibility to make those people affirm our love.  If they are blind to it, there is nothing we can do.  Except pray.  And continue to show kindness. 

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